SF ignores SD after BD born
I am a divorced BM. My daughter is 5. My partner has been in her life since she was 1. Until our joint biological child was born last year, he was thoughtful, involved and caring towards my older daughter. Since my youngest was born however, he has changed and freely admits it.
He is not verbally or physically mean to my eldest but he essentially ignores her. Literally, not even a hello or goodbye.
Has anyone else been through this?
I realize forcing a relationship between he and my daughter is unhealthy but so is what is taking placeIf this was the kind of behavior that existed from the beginning, I would not have pursued the relationship. But now I share a child with him, which he is unbelievably great with, and have to think of her best interests too.
If you have experienced something similar and have words of encouragement, advice or experience you could share, I would greatly appreciate it.