Really struggling with intimacy and wanting to be with hubby now
hubby knows me and our 2 toddlers get very sick being in a car playing taxi and would vomit for his 3 kids aged 22, 20 & 13 for so called valuable family time that they want to spend time with our toddlers yet they’re ignored 99% of the time. For ages we needed to get daughter vaccinated 18 months ago because its always in short supply/out of stock, hubby is always busy for getting her vaccinated but the moment his kids with ex suggest a visit on weekend (the only time hubby is supposedly free), automatically yes and plans are made but never does he ask me first if we have anything urgent/important planned for this day. He just tells me he’s meeting his kids and do i want to come- answer is a firm instant NO!!
isn’t being in a marriage like Rags says, being equity life partners where he should discuss with me first, ask me. Then he knows our medical condition won’t go away