My ss is 4 and bs is turning two in a few months. They absalutely adore eachother, love going to play in eachothers rooms and attached at the hip. Problem is as bs gets older ss is getting more and more physical with him. BS is large for his age not even 2 and wearing 3T clothing so I think SS sometimes doesnt really understand how much of a "baby" he is. As BS gets older they will be playing and I will hear BS start crying like he just got hurt or whining. I go and check and SS will either slip up and tell me he pushed him/took something/hit him or I will have heard SS close a door in his face or I hear him screaming at the top of his lungs BS's name. When they are playing together in my view and I see these things SS is generally screaming right into his face. I would say it is a good 50% of the time that BS is getting this crappy treatment, on a good day. To be honest no matter how hard we have tried for the last year it has gotten progressively worse. Well this last set of days have been worse of all. I thought the pushing had subsided and BS was just starting to get more of personality and they where simply being boys. I thought letting them figure it out was best. Then I spent a few days really paying attention to what was going on. Turns out BS is being pushed at least twice a day for literally standing in the wrong spot, screamed at I cant even count, getting doors slammed in his face if its a bad day and hit to boot... I am so dissapointed and have no idea what to do. BS just barely started talking... he cant even stand up for himself because SS is also a big boy wearing size 7 and 8 clothing. Not to mention he cant even vocalize what is going on. We asked SD 9 where this was coming from and turns out BM is watching two older boys who are extremely physical with SS and just today after school pushed SD so hard at school she completely lost her footing and feel a good 2 or 3 feet from where she was standing. Now I understand that what happens in BMs house is fankly her own business... my question is I feel like BS is getting the brunt end of all of this and I am not sure how to approach it in our own home. We dont spank, we dont hit, we dont scream in our home so this crap is absalutely against everything I stand for. Any creative suggestions?! Some that dont involve seperating these two boys that clearly love eachother?! I am so lost.