Not sure what to do
So I met my now husband while he was still married to his ex, but they were seperated because she left with another man and got pregnant. We had an amazing connection from the moment we met, everything seemed really easy and we had so much fun. I met his son after a few months and his son at the time was almost 2. Everything was fine for a while after that, even with his ex being mad that he moved on and found someone else and filed for a divorce.
Fast foward a few years, my husband and I have a 2 year old daughter and a little boy on the way. When his son comes to visit though, he acts as though we dont have a daughter. It was so bad the other day that she went upstairs, laid in her bed and cried because they wouldnt play with her and just kept telling her to go away. She is a big time daddys girl and she adores him more than anyone else. Im starting to worry that she is going to end up resenting him. She already hates when her brother comes around, I dont want her to hate her dad.
Im starting to hate him because I feel like I cant trust him to have both kids alone. The other day, I decided to take a longer than normal shower, when I got downstairs she had a massive cut on her forehead and when I asked what happend, he said I dont know she just came over crying. I understand that toddlers get hurt but I feel like he shouldve atleast known what happened. Im really not ssure what I should do because I do love my husband and I know that he loves both me and my daughter but it seems like thats only when his son isnt around.