Never mind, just kidding.
I just (for the first time) told my boyfriend that I thought there was a good chance his kids' mom was turning them against me. Telling them they don't have to listen to me, etc.
He got defensive and said that one, BM doesn't "think about me" enough to do something like that, and two, I was "taking away from his ability to turn the kids into good people," and that his kids are "smart enough" to know to respect an adult "regardless of what their mother says" and that I wasn't giving THE KIDS any credit for being able to make good decisions!
OMGGGGGGG... kiss my ASS. Forget I ever said anything.