My Stepdaughter is Jealous
Hi guys, i just moved in with my partner a month ago, she have a 3 yrs old toddler.
Her daughter is still young and should mean the blending would be easier, however she gets so jealous when she sees me and her mum being intimate in any way, she hit her mum's hands and threw the food away when her mum was trying to put food in my mouth
she screams and do anything to get attention whenever me and her mum talks for a bit, to a point that she screams and when she get the attention she starts thinking of things to ask for even if they dont make any sense
Anyway i know she's only 3 years old and that's completely normal but I don't know how to deal with it? It kinds hurts that i cannot touch my partner at all in front of her or show any love! So what can we do to deal with it?
Also we live in a 3 bedroom, when she asked her mum why is she staying in my bedroom and not in the 3rd bedroom, her mum told her because the other bedroom is not ready yet. Is that a correct response to give the toddler? I feel that we should be more open with her but still dont know how
Also she wakes up a lot during the night and my partner have to get up and comfort her and come back like 3-4 times every night, she's getting so tired and said she probably gonna move with her child to the 3rd bedroom every night when she wakes up the first time which made me worried! It means we will be in seperate bedrooms for at least another year or two!
my partner won't accept bringing her daughter to our bed during the night because she dont want her on the same bed with me
i need some advice because I've never been in such a relationship before