Monster-in-Law in cahoots with BM
Oh boy, I am ready to throw a fit about this one. My MIL (mother in law) came over this morning to visit the kids. She only lives 20 min away so why she can't pick them up is beyond me. While she was here, the first thing she disapproved of was my house. It wasn't white glove clean, you see. My things were not arranged to her liking and I actually let the kids play in living room. It's about 9:30am on a sunday morning and *gasp* the kids are still in their PJ's. So she asked the kids to go to their room to play so she could talk to "your stepmother" GRRRR, I hate when she rubs it in my face. Anyway,she proceeds to tell me that she has talked to the BM and she thinks the BM has a right to visit my son. WHAT!?!? This is my biological son and that sick demented bitch will not get anywhere near him. Her reasoning? I raise her kids and so she should be able to raise mine. THAT IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!!! I am beside myself with rage at her suggestion. What would yo do in this situation? Aside from the fact that the BM has no rights to my son and therefor cannot force me to allow visitaton, how do I deal with MIL thinking she has the right to decide where my son goes? He may be her grandson but that is where the train stops. This is one of many things she has done to undermine my role as BM, SM and Wife. I am about sick of it and when my husband talk to her about it she claims to have no memory of any such thing.