just don't have that "biological" feeling
I have been with my dh for 2.5 almost 3 years now. He has two children one son 3.5 and a 6 year old daughter. I care for his children and just adore his daughter. I just had a son of my own who is 2 months old now. WOW what a difference for me. I feel bad because I certainly don't have the same feelings for the other two children as I do for my own. The love I feel for them is nothing compared to the love i feel for my own son. I want to believe i treat my dh children the way I would my own but after having my own I don't know! I guess I will know more when he is older but I feel bad because no matter how hard I try I just cannot get the same feelings for these two children as I do my own. How is everyone else with their own children compared to their step children. What do you do to make sure that his/her children are not treated any differently than your own child?