" It's NOT like an infant will care..." What did you say, DH???
I was making myself LOUD and CLEAR last night that I am not happy with always postponing holidays for a 6 year old who could care less about seeing her dad, unless he is buying her something or feeding her french fries on a daily basis.
Hello DH? There are also "other" family members here who actually deserve to celebrate these dates on the real dates? I asked him about what we will do when the baby arrives for the holidays. What did he answer? " It's not like an infant will even care what day it is." WRONG answer buddy. I jumped his shit over that with the following;
" Oh really? Did you say that when your daughter was a baby?"
DH: " Well...no." Me: "I know you didn't. There are still freaking VHS tapes laying around of EVERY single Christmas of the 3 of you, since SD6 was born." :sick:
Yes, I am sorry to say, but I did look at them when I was alone. It made me gag. I mean, a gazillion presents for a baby on Christmas Day. Yet "this" baby will not even notice? Oh hell to the no. It does not work that way dear. Screw that. I will give this baby everything that he or she deserves.
Am I wrong? DH "weakly" replied with, "Oh well...we can keep leftovers or whatever for SD6 when she *decides* to visit and do it all over again. We can have as many holidays as we need." Seriously? We are not made of money here. I'm so sick of his lame guilt and now I am pregnant...That remark really ticked Butterfly off.
Thanks in advance for letting my hormones vent~