Is it so wrong that he wants to spend time with his kids?
BM is constantly trying to fill up the kids time when it's our time. DH has been putting a stop to it but what she does now is tries to make plans through the kids. For instance, SS called him last night and says one of his friends was in the middle of a move and asked if SS could dog sit at their house while they are moving. What??? This makes zero sense. He could hear BM in the background coaching him. DH said "we'll bud, you already have a birthday party that day and we have to run around and get a gift, food for your lizard and you need to take care of your own pets, but how about this: why don't they drop the dog off to us and you can dog sit here" there was a pause (mom telling him what to say) then he says "well I kind of want to go there?" DH said "let's talk about it tomorrow when I pick you up" so mom isn't there coaching him.
Thid is ridiculous. We have no time with these kids. I get they need to have friends and do things as well but every weekend we have them they have stuff mom sets up for them from the morning until the night. We are SO sick of it! Then she gets the kids involved and puts them in the middle so we have th either go along with this craziness or say no.
I have ZERO issues like this with my ex! Why is it constantly something with her? Literally every single day it's something.
why can't she just go get a life?
So DH just wants to freaking say no. They have responsibilities here that they are not doing because they are constantly doing other things. He put his foot down with the sports nonstop so now she's going to try to get them to do dog sitting ect... what can we do? Just constantly say no to stepsons? She is a complete maniac.