I think our family might break
Hi, I’m new here :)
We have been together with DH for four years. He has a girl, 8 years this month.
He got divorced from his wife one year before we met. I got to know his daughter and I thought we were friends. I feel I loved her, and I missed her a lot. I thought we were good friends. We played a lot to together etc. She was with us fre weeks last year, and now came for summer.
She has been complaining all this time about her mom. How mom is mean to her. Spanked her even. Not buyes anything etc. We decided to lawyer up and try to get her custody. Everyone warned that she is diffucult...no one really went into spesifics. Just just she can be rude.
Two weeks now with us. I’m sitting in a train, going away. With DH marriage is good. We have a one year old adorable girl.
I feel like such a loser. Im over thirty. Have my own company. I should not be in this train. But since day one, SD has bullied me (like she bullies everyone else except her dad). When DH leaves the house, it starts. She will run around, scream, scare the baby. Yesterday I was outside with BD and for over twenty times she told me ”Baby sleep, me internet” and pointed the door. I calmly said no...unti I snapped and raised voice saying, ”you do not say when we go in and baby goes to sleep.” She shut up and went in.
I put baby to sleep, go to her, offer to play, she says goodbye, closes her door on me.
She does not speak my language, but she sure knows enough faces to make me feel like shit.
If nothing else works she will take away clothes and try to make me watch cuz she knows it embatrasses me. Then she laughs a shitty laugh.
With baby, she will scare her (be a zombie, go inside black garbage bag and growl), take the toys, just not even watch at her all day...until dad comes home, then she will be good and ”love sister”. But baby is scared and not likes her at all.
so I left. To take a break. SD mom is not good mom. She should be with her dad. But I don’t think I can be a parent for her and put baby in the mix.