I resent my SD, is this normal?
I am engaged to what I consider the love of my life. He has a two year old daughter and I have a one year old daughter. We have full custody of mine and joint of his, week on/off. She is ruining our relationship! She is an absolute brat, let me tell ya some things she does: she throws fits all the time and whines constantly when she doesn't get her way she slams her head on the ground or when we say no she crys, while in time out she screams for 40 minutes straight till we have to put her in her crib, she will out right ignore us when we talk to her or give her directions, she won't eat anything, she takes her sleepers off then takes her diaper off and gets pee and poop everywhere, she is mean to my daughter by trying to steal her toys or slams her fingers in the play kitchen door or steals her toys and if my daughter doesn't let go of the toy his daughter stomps on her leg! I am at my wits end. She drives me crazy to the point I want to smack her. I can't handle the no listening and the fact she is teaching my daughter negative behaviors. My daughter is missing out in positive attention while his daughter gets negative attention constantly. We can't go in public the weeks we have her because she is so naughty and the weeks we don't have her we are relaxed and in a routine. I seriously am contemplating leaving my fiancée because I don't like his daughter. I feel like a terrible person but I resent her now because it's tearing my man n me up and hurting my daughter in the process. I think I never bonded with her because since I've known her n been in the picture she's been a monster. What should I do!? Help!!