I need help!
I've almost been married a year. My husband has two daughters, 13 & 11. I love them all very much. Their mother went into rehab 9 months ago. No help from her at all. And the mother has out of control dangerous episodes. My husband has had the girls since she was put into rehab. I took the kids and my husband into my house bout a month before we married. Both the girls have no dicipline or boundaries. They both have been arrested for shoplifting and have a case against them. The oldest has no remorse. The oldest then got expelled from school for drinking and having alcohol at school. Then her phone taken away or taking inappropriate pictures to send a boy at school. She posted pictures of her at her grandparents with her holding his heart medication saying she takes pills, and took photos of her holding empty bottles of liquor saying she drinks trying to impress school friends. She is shut down at home or aggressive to her younger sister. Her mother bought her tampons at age 13. She carried clean and dirty tampons in her book bag together until her father and me found them. She lies and won't own her actions. We have taken make up away until next year and she managed to sneak it again. She stays with friends and forgets to call and check in. I have been dealing with my husband getting sober as well. My husband drank the kids saw and said nothing I flu d him hours Ted face down on the porch. I was furious! You do not keep secrets when someone in the family could be hurt. Not to mention its your father. I told him I wanted her to be disciplined for this behavior. You don't sit and watch bad things happen. They normally tell about everything. My husband asked his daughter if she wants to be disciplined she said no and he moved out. My things have been stolen by his daughter. My marriage is destroyed. I put so much effort in and am at a loss.