Help! Inappropriate SS and
To make a long story short I am married to a great man and we have two boys together, 5 yrs and 2 years old. I also have a step-son that is 12 years old and only child. I have known him since he was 5 and he has been through a lot considering divorce, etc. His mother is crazy to say the least and involves him in all the adult stuff. So, to sum it up he has "daddy issues". He does not care for my 5 year old becasue he has really bad jelousy issues from the time he was born til now. But now comes my problem..He is very sexually inapproprate with his grandparent just when he stayed this last summer and who knows who since we only have him EOW, but now he likes to be touchy feely with my two year old and consitantly handing on my husband. I do not allow him to be without an adult and my husband agrees. Those are other issues as well but would be to much so this is my most concerning one. I need some advice. Just a few days ago I had a breaking point and got after him and told him to leave. (wasent my proudest moment, I am ashamed I said that) I always left the parenting to my husband because this is not my child and my husbands ex said that aswell so I disengaged and have since left that be. After I got after just a few days ago, he then continued to call my husband parents, siblings, and even my parents to basically get me into "trouble". I now have my in-laws and brother in-law thinking that I'm a bad person and my in-laws told my husband I need bible studies. I am lost for words. I have tried to be supportive but have come to the point where I just can't. Would it be all odd for me and my kids to leave when he comes EOW. Would it be odd to suggest if he wanst to see his son EOW they can get together by themselves. I really dont want him in my house. He is know to steal and rumage through our things. I'm lost for words. I would appreciate any advice. Help!