Fiance has son he has not met but wants to be apart of his life. Causing him to be miserable but he is scared. Need advice.
My fiance has a son that he has not met. Long story short, an old fling of his informed him that she was pregnant and that the child may be his. She then never made any further contact, yet nor did he. A 1 1/2 year later, my fiance recieved a Child Support Case against him. He went through all the proper procedures and had the paternity test that confirmed it was his and now pays child support. Here is where it gets a little complicated. When she was pregnant, the mother got pregnant and now her husband has been portrayed to his son as the father (neither man is on the birth certificate). My fiance wants a relationship with his son, but is unsure how to initiate. She has made things difficult and harrasses him via Facebook and Text calling him a sperm donor and such things. He is a very quiet man and doesn't know how to go about talking to her about seeing his son. It hurts him day in and day out, especially considering that I have a daughter myself that he plays a father figure role in. He is scared and does not know what to say to her. Advice?