DH using his only vacation time to be with SD, not new born son!
Hello my besties! So every year my DH gets 2 weeks paid vacation at work. Also gets SD ( his daughter) for 2 weeks in summer. Every year we don't go on vacation cuz he saves all his PTO for the 2 wks SD here in summer, which drives me crazy but i deal with it to avoid a fight. This year I'm due with his first and only son July 4th. Today he informed me he's going to put his PTO request in for the 2wks SD here, and use NONE when i have the baby! I said so you're going to be with me at the hospital for the birth then go back to work leaving me here with a new born and a two year old?!?! He said "yup!" I'm so annoyed. I was at LEAST hoping he would use a week of his PTO to be here with us, help with baby and adjusting to having a new born and two year old... but no! As usual it's all about SD! To me it just shows where his priorities are, ALWAYS! Really, how often does your wife give birth, how often do you have SD for vacations!?! What do you think? Am i being unreasonable? Should he use all his PTO to spend time with SD, or should he spend some time with new baby? Should it be 50-50, or even use all 2 wks with new baby? Thank you all for always helping me!