Control and Resposibility.
Just a thought, and an arguement with FDH.
BM in our situation sees SD 90-100 days a year at most. I had an argument with FDH tonight about the fact that I am very close to side stepping resposibility for SD5. I am tired of being resposible for a child that I have no say over. Our arguement centered around SD riding the school bus. BM doesn't want SD to ride the school bus, FDH didn't seem to care one way or another until BM started bitching. I rode the school bus from K-10, and it was good enough for me. My problem with it is, these two want to decide that the school bus isn't good enough for SD, but I am the only one here to drive her. I don't feel I should be responsible when I didn't get a say in the disicion. She is their daughter I get that. So one of them needs to drive her to school. (BM is out of state and FDH's work schedule doesn't allow for him to do it.) Unless they can find someone who wants to do it, I think Princess should be riding the fucking bus! I feel like I should have say, if I am expected to have the resposibility.
Point being, disengaging from SD related resposibility has seemed more and more appealing latley. I don't mind doing things like this for FDH but BM does NOTHING for this kid. Fine butt out Kay aint not bus service here.