Can you be in a relationship when you can't stand his kids?
I live with my partner. We have his kids 50/50. When they are not there he isn't either. He workds away.
At first I was excited to be a stopmom and the kids were excited too. That quickly ended. My partner treated his kids like his wives and I was always pushed down to second teir. On top of that I just don't like them. They lie and steal and write notes calling me horrible names and dominate my house when the come over. I have become so resentful and I wish they would just stay with thier horrible mom who calls me terrible names and tries to find people to attack me. I don't even want to have a child of my own because I don't want my child to be anything like them and I know there mom would tell them to treat my child awfully. I am so resent by now. I know it is horrible to think and say but I just jate them and want to go away! So I can live a happy life. I feel trapped and in too deep. My partner has made a lot of changes to his behavior and parenting but I feel like it's almost too late. I love him but hate the kids. They just arrived at our house yestersay and we have already had like 3 fights..alll about the kids, of course.
Is it even possible to maintain a relationship when you can't stand his kids? What do you do? Has anyone else been able to do?