Bedroom Situation - please help!
We are currently in a four bedroom house, and we have four kids.
Here is the set up of the bedrooms:
1. Oldest, DD10 is in her own room, we have her about 55-60% of custody, and currently pushing for more custody when she goes to high school in 1.5 years.
2. DD8 is in her own room too, we have her about 55-60% of custody
3. SD7 has her own room too, DH has her officially 50% custody, but I calculated she sleeps here about 30-40% because BM asks for extra days here and there and she stays with DH's parents often.
4. DS16mo is in a makeshift room in the living room, with only a curtain to separate off the room. He's an "ours" baby so of course he's with us 100% of the time.
We cannot afford to move somewhere bigger. I'm the only one working, DH has been off work for 2-2.5 years.
I think that we should switch DS and SD7 when DS turns 2, so she has the makeshift bedroom, because he's here around 3x as much as she is. I'm flexible to possibly wait until he turns 3. I don't want to put my older girls in a room together because at their dad's they share a bedroom in a very cramped space that is office/shared bedroom, and they deserve to have their own space here. I don't want to put DD8 and SD7 to share a room together, also because SD7 is bossy and downright mean sometimes.
Anyone have any ideas?