bd and sd do not get along
Ahh, so, I am living with my bf of 2 years. I have a four y/o daughter from a previous relationship and he has a 4 y/o and a 2y/o from 2 previous relationships. The 2 y/o is lovely....the 4 y/o is an absolute horror. She is just so mean. I feel so bad for my little girl because she has to put up with this little girl on the weekends. Its ridiculous. She is just cruel. She will say and do things just to make my daugher mad and start a fight. She will tell my daughter she hates her and when my daughter apologizes(even though she did nothing wrong) she will say"sorry doesn't do anything". She yells and screams,hits, one time even peed into a cup and poured it on my daughter, she be-littles my daughter. The girl is only 4! How does she know how to kill someone's self esteem like this already!?!?!? She always has to be the "biggest, best, first, blah blahblah and calls my daughter the loser, stupid, etc. She is disrespectful to myself and her dad. I have voiced my concerns with my bf. That didn't go so well. He of course defended his daughter. Which I knew would happen. I honestly just want a happy household. Every weekend with this little girl is just miserable. All there is is yelling and crying. My daughter is unhappy the majority of the time and I am about ready to pull my hair out. I would LOVE some suggestions on what to do. Maybe forms of discipline I can use? I have never had problems with my daughter so I am just at a loss on what to do with this kid.