I have never met her but hubbys family, even coworkers that worked in her department as she worked at same company as hubby, all have negative things to say about her. She seems to make everything about her, every scenario not about her she makes it about her. I asked hubby if she was a drama queen and he said not really.

when she found out hubby had a Caucasian girlfriend she claimed i was a half naked whore and it was her duty to protect her daughters against hubby. She had kidnapped the girls over a year prior but saw an angle to spin that to her defense.

called up hubbys eldest sister ranting like a psycho bitch and she better check on her brother because he’s gone cuckoo.. sis calls hubby and hubby is all chill on the phone because in his head all he can say is “here we go again with crazy exwife”, he was so calm on the phone when sister asked why is exwife calling me saying all this crap that doesn’t make sense and hubby said chill, i was coming in a few weeks time as i lived overseas. Hubby said you can see with your own eyes the person she is and exwife is batshit crazy jealous. Well elder sil was at our engagement. Fast forward almost 4 years later and crazy exwife has eldest daughter call another sister of hubbys then puts exwife on and she is singing me praises, she had an epiphany they had moved on with new spouses and me and hubby had new kids and she wants the kids to all be on good terms and oh she loves me because i treat her son like my own. 

Woman you abandoned and neglected the shit out of your kids and husband that he had to divorce your arse and you’re trying to turn things to make it look like you’re a mother theresa of the year mumma and that i did just as good a job as you. I did a better job in the 4 years being a stepmum than she has the past 22 years she’s been these 3 kids mum.

now exwife just uses the kids as guilt but hubby is starting to see how our kids aren’t being used like this by me. She has her eldest daughter lecture hubby about child support to care for the younger sister and hubby needs to pay 22yr old daughter to help cover her expenses but reality is bio mum contributes f*#k all... but none of the kids are bitching about mummy

i feel they’ve got some sort of stockholm syndrome from all the brainwashing that they justify the pathetic actions of bio mum instead of realising how wrong it is and confronting her about it.

Just thought some would like to read on them and if your exwife or partner/spouses exwife is all the characteristics or a few.

https://www.daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/characteristics-of-narcis...

they are just so shocking and appalling to read and heartbreaking there are people actually doing this for their own entertainment. 

My husbands exwife invented a fake illness, she’s about to die any moment from a mysterious illness no specialist at hospital has been able to identify, she was walking with a walking stick in her early 40s from some mysterious unidentifiable illness for 2 years and new hubby had to take her to a witch doctor who confirmed my husband wen’t to perform voodoo/black magic on her

suddenly the whacko exwife who goes to witch doctors and own family members actively engage in voodoo to harm people has made someone who has never engaged in or visited a withdoctor to be the enemy. 

Oh poor exwife and eldest daughter had to care for younger sister so bio mum is absolved of any guilt od responsibility.

i know she’s trying to get info about our lives via her kids but past few visit i refused to attend, i don’t want any ammo or info being passed on to her abd told hubby to be careful what he tells his daughters because they report to bio mum about everything

i need to have some boundaries in my life which should be respected but ex wife feels entitled to know everything abd trying to work up hubbys sisters except they have only positive things to say