1st. time mom
im pregnant w/ my first child (girl) and im very excited. my husband and i just got a new home and im looking forward to decorating baby's room. but there is one problem there are only 2 rooms in the house and my husband has an 8 year old daughter who is jealous of baby. i have always dreamed of having a baby and having a baby room but in the situation that im in i feel like i can't have what i want and that stresses me out so bad. sd spends every other weekend w/ us and barely plays in that room if not at all cause all she does is follow dad like a leech. tell me if im wrong but i feel like i deserve to enjoy my 1st. baby the way that i want to. i want to decorate that room for my baby and i also want to spend the 1st weeks after baby arrives with my husband and baby only because i want to be able to experiece that. not to be mean but i don't want spoiled sd to be getting in the way and trying to get all the attention when baby comes. please let me know if there is someone who feels the same way as i do or let me know if im being an evil stepmother.