Why are absent BM's so volatile to SM's?
First off, I get it. New woman in the picture, new woman around the child. I'm talking about the BM's that make you wonder.
But if the SM is loving, non violating in the respect of who holds the actual title, supportive, educating, and gentle, why such venom?
Even if they were split long before you got together and it was HER choice to leave, and she only wants him back when you're in the picture?
Your kid is cared for, even a little spoiled. They are getting that head start, why kill it or battle it?