Small but constant annoyance
My SO has this nightly ritual where she lays down with SS6 until he falls asleep. Its annoying, I usually let them have their own time all afternoon (after work) then I feel like he cuts into my time at night. She has babied him sooooooo much, I forced a lot of changes on them including her dressing ss6 for school and bathing him. HE ISNT 2!!
I've spoken to other BMs (since I don't have any SM in my circle) and they say that laying with your child is a beautiful bond, and one ill understand once I have my own. ugh. I hate that.
its great and all that they read together at night but the laying with him thing? annoying and weird.
when she works late and I have to put him to bed, I DONT lay with him. it makes me uncomfortable... his skinny little hands, its weird, he even makes me uncomfortable when he touches this little mole she has on her shoulder. its a comfort thing? or a habit thing? idk. it makes me feel funny in the tummy. anywayyyy she gets soo mad at me for not laying with him. HE.IS.SIX.
I know this is a very small thing to be complaining about, its just a nightly annoyance, needed to let it out.