Sleeping in bed
DH brought SD3 in to bed this morning because she was crying (second morning in a row) and I immediately woke up in a terrible mood and I angrily told him that if he wants to cuddle with his kids, he needs to do that in their beds, not ours. This is literally my only refuge in our house. My safety. And when I wake up to nose picking in my haven, it makes me hurt inside.
BM lets them sleep in bed with her often, but it's just not what I think is appropriate - I.e kids getting used to just running in to our bed whenever they want and from what I understand, it is a HARD habit to break.
So I made a house rule today - no kids in our bed. If they need comfort, he or I can lay with them in their own bed if necessary but no sleeping in ours.
Am I being unreasonable? Has anyone else dealt with sleeping situations like this?