Why They Hide Stuff
Why do these dads hide things from tge new spouse? Like paying the skids phone bill. Hide even the thoughts of doing something for tge sk.
They hide their phone conversation. Not just some but all to most of them. Go outside in the dark to talk.
They use the sk as their marital sounding board, sharing arguments from the marriage. Then the adult kid says whats going on and then the parent gets their (loving support and attention) getting their ego stroked.
My dh lied about going to the phone store. I ask him where he was he hesitated, screemed you don't trust me. (Well I guess I don't, because your name was on the sign in sheet inside the store) . I saw it with my own eyes.
Why hide and lie over stupid, stupid, crap,? Hes got his money ive got mine. Exactly the way he demanded. So if it's his money why hide how he spends it?
Why lie at all.