Why should I let her drive me away
I am experiencing difficulties with 26 year old YSD. Basically I avoid her at all costs, don’t like her, have nothing in common with her despite my best efforts trying over the years. DH and I had to go out with her and this now fiancé last night to celebrate the farce of an engagement.
She gives DH a handwritten letter to begin with saying all sorts of rubbish like he was the one who taught her to ride a bike etc. etc. then at the end of all the vomit asking him if he would walk her down the isle! No date set for this wedding yet!
She then started banging on about her imaginary house! I piled in and told her that if she was hoping for this in the future she should go and get a full time job. She made all kinds of excuses why she couldn’t. For the rest of the evening she reverts back down memory lane with the remember when daddy all the rubbish I’ve heard over and over!! I was on the scene throughout her childhood but you wouldn’t know because everything she talks about I’m not included in. Then she sat rudely whispering to her boyfriend for the rest of the time.
When we left the boyfriend/fiancé who to be fair seems like a nice lad said we must do this more regularly. However there is no way I can see his social retard of a daughter anymore often!
Afterwards I told DH there is no way I will be repeating that more regularly. I suggested he starts seeing her again on his own. I just can’t do this anymore and do feel truly terrible that I don’t like his daughter. I feel so strongly about it now that I was even thinking I may need to end my 24 year relationship with DH to get away from her because this whole situation is making me so unhappy. But then again why should I let her drive me away can anyone please offer any advice as I feel so alone with this thank you.