She had a cancellation and I took it. I wanted to discuss with her things that I have put together about Twit.

I am just, more or less, talking out loud here, sorting things out. It was interesting and we kind of hit a reason why DH puts up with a lot of Twit carp. Just a thought, but.

Anyway, I talked about how I noticed that any time Twit's hubby is out of town she requires a major amount of attention from DH. That, and how I notice she seems not to want to go anywhere, like an auction, etc., alone (which I do all the time). I read a passage to her from my journal about how when DH went down to be with his son, who was having serious surgery, and Twit wouldn't watch our dog, Twit argued with him that SHE should be the one going down not him. That he could go down after SHE came back! How she told me I was only driving down with the dog because I was afraid, and didn't like, being alone! Umm, that is not true. Told her about the Twit drive-bys and how she got stopped and that I haven't seen her driving around since. AS she said...ya gotta do what you have to do to keep both your sanity and to be safe.

We discussed a lot of her strange talking and how she use to have her Father over for Father's Day BUT only because they were having her husband's father, and his family over. Once the husband's father passed, that was the end of that.

How she cries like a baby all the time and a drama queen. Everyone is against her, she is always the victim even though she was the attacker.

Anyway, here is the nut and bolts of what came out. First, I am doing fine, and Twit is borderline if not a sociopath because she has no empathy for any one and is always out to use people for what she can get.

But, the counselor put out that DH wants to coddle her because, when she cries etc., he doesn't see a grown woman, but his little girl. She says it is great that DH is starting to get a clue about how he is being manipulated; that it is hard because no father wants to see his "child" upset and of course would want to fix things. That is why he wants me to suck it up and let it go, because he sees me as an adult. Adult or not, no one deserves to be carped on by Twit. Point being that Twit will manipulate any one to get what she wants at any one's expense.

Told her about the paperweights and how Twit WANTS those sooo badly. I suspect that Twit's little brain is just turning trying to think of a way to get them for free from us. She commented it was a good sign that DH was telling her no, what I wanted for them is what she would have to pay.

I needed that in order to set my mind straight about what was going on, kind of reinforcement.

It is sad, she said, that I am rather stuck right now because of my illness and the treatment I underwent; that I have to wait for an all clear before proceeding with any move. I expressed my concern about that in that I like and feel comfortable with my doctors and not crazy about having to find new ones.

I am going to be chewing on what she said about how DH's sees Twit when she starts her crying and carrying on.