Wedding buffoonery conclusion
So the conclusion to OSD's atrocious behavior is that DH will walk her down the aisle halfway and have her stepfather walk her down the rest of the way.
Except it isn't has lovey dovey as it is with other normal families. BM's husband has played a huge role in poisoning the stepkids against us.
He has told countless lies and harassed me personally to the point where I went to the cops years ago.
I am of course, still not invited. Not that I wanted to go anyway. I cannot pretend celebrate OSD's wedding.
DH was almost not going to the wedding himself. But lo and behold, the other two stepkids descended like vultures and tore into him. They accused him of deliberately trying to ruin OSD's wedding.
They successfully beat him into submission like they always do. Threatening to not come visit always gets to DH and they know it.
I am absolutely disgusted. Even more disgusted that part of my money went into this wedding. I will not be contributing to the other two weddings.
If OSD doesn't change her attitude, her marriage won't survive. But I don't see her changing.