We both laughed
This weekend husband flew to stay with one of his daughters and see his 4 yr old granddaughter he has never seen. It's a long long story but I truly tried and finally stepped away from SD. I have not seen her in over 4 yrs (only saw her 4 times in FIFTEEN years)and when they talk on the phone even in the car i dont utter a word. The stuff that she has done to her father as an adult many parent would have said adios. But it was this way with her ex since the day he met her. Chasing her. She now lives close by to the daughter. Of course. Lol. So DH was getting to fly out tonight and at the airport told me to make sure I knew when all the passwords and important documents were. I smiled and said "Why? Do you think your ex and daughter will finally try to kill you? I would make sure you are not the first to eat the food served." We both burst out laughing. Seriously I am enjoying the weekend. DH says he will call me tomorrow and I was tempted to say don't. I dont need to have to hear the kid in the background or the flipping daughter's voice again. Am I mean spirited? Probably but I truly dont care. It is true that the older we get the more intolerant we become. Proud of it.