Update on my horrible adult stepkids
Well, I did not attend younger stepdaughter graduation because I was never invited but my husband did go and watched her get her diploma. He was so happy for her and she extended her hand to give him a handshake. My oldest stepdaughter went to the aquarium with my husband and her young kids. She took a few pics but not one was posted on Instagram even though she posted tons with her stepfather. I have not talked to them in a couple of weeks and I will admit I feel a loss but also peace. I do know one day I will have to talk to them and I’m planning to tell them that I don’t want to be in their life. I’m done with toxic people. I have told my husband he can see his kids as much as he wants and I will be supportive but I don’t want them in my house. I also said I will encourage you as long as you don’t push me to have a relationship. I’m just done. I feel so detached from them and I’m surprisingly ok with it. I have decided I’m not going to let anyone talk to me the way they do and I refuse to be treated like that. Period.