Tired of the SS BS. Sometimes you can't be nice
So tired of another issue always happening with SS. I was being nice by giving him 90 days but nope he has to leave asap. If not then everyone have to go!!! Found SS washing his girlfriend clothes in my house and he didnt think it was no big deal. He doesnt work due to him wanting to be an Entreprenuer and doesnt contribute. He has no rights to do anything like that in my house. Had his dog in the house for a few days which I did not know while he was at his GF house. Came home to dog poo all over my living room because he had not walked the dog in days. Lied to his father that he walked him that day. I told my husband he really need to start looking at the cameras because he will then find that his son lied. Im constantly being disrespected in my own home. I told him he should have been removed when he allowed his mother in my house who I despise. She does not like me and still wants a relationship with my DH. He said he feels like I dont like his son because I am always coming to him about addressing these issues. At this point, I dont care what he thinks. This is just ridiculous at this point. I am not apologizing for having rules in my own home. I don't care if his son doesnt like me. I'm tired. I love my husband but if he can't see the error of his son ways, then we need to move on and call it quits. I've had family members live with me in the past and I can't do it anymore especially when these people do not respect my home.
If we happen to divorce, I will resent my DH because he allowed his son to come between us. I never once thought that adult SSkids will cause this many problems.