Step daughters birthday
Oldest step daughter is turning 23 in two weeks. She made a reservation for her dad to have dinner with the 3 of them (ex wife/ mother and sister) just the 4 of them. They have requested they do this for both birthdays and graduations and life events that are "their life events". Just to have it be the 4 of them (my soon to be husband, his ex wife and the two daughters ages 21 and 23)
1) take the high road. Who cares. Not my life event. Not my issue!
2) shows a lack of respect for their father and is very immature. Parents have been divorced for 5 years now. They should be moving on and growing up. Not to mention, don't they have any friends to spend birthdays with!