BD wanted to have a weekend away before college starts up. She’s a young adult but we didn’t want her going out of state alone and I had to work. So BD invited older SD to go with her for a sister weekend. SD said yes so BD found a place for 2 people and paid for it. 

A couple of days later, SD called BD and told her she wanted BD to invite SD’s sister from BM’ s other marriage. BD knows her, doesn’t care for her and told SD no, she’s not invited and BD had already paid the rental off for just the 2 of them. Sd got pissy and told BD that if the other girl couldn’t go, she wouldn’t either. And then told BD how selfish she was and that she was mean and nasty like me. Then SD called DH and griped to him about BD being selfish. DH thinks SD is wonderful and got on BD for not inviting SD’s other sister 

BD called me at work in tears from how SD treated her, how DH backed SD up and what she said about me. She was so hysterical I had to leave work to go home to calm her down. 

I got BD calmed down; had a few choice words for DH. Then told BD to find a friend to go with her which she did and I’ve taken off work to go in case the friend backs out. 

After all that,sd called BD back trying to wiggle her way back to going on the trip and BD had happily informed her that since SD cancelled that BD already has made other arrangements with someone else. 

Sometimes I really just want to smack DHand SD. SD screws with BD and DH has no backbone at all.