SD45 and SD28 are half sisters. SD45 a result of a teen relationship when my H was a young man. A relationship that lasted "15 minutes" according to BM1. SD28 is the product of H's second marriage.  BM2 also has an older daughter from her previous marriage..

I have 2DD's, DD35 and DD32, both professional women, with degrees, married with families of their own. They do not become involved in my relationship with H no matter their opinion. I have not reached out to them for marriage advice, and they are currently unaware of the current situation. I am their parent not their friend. Other than my BFF of 30 plus years knows and of course my ST community. Again I thank you for reading.