So I'm trying to not get my feelings hurt, but....
so my SD24 is getting married on Tuesday. She has included me enough so that she gets money -- ie we paid for the flowers, the cake, her bouquet, and the license.
So today she was doing the decorating for the wedding at the location, and everyone else was invited to help except me and DH, and my BD20. I asked if her fiance's parents were there -- and they were. I would have gladly helped, but wasn't invited. I also wasn't invited to help out at SS23's wedding.
I guess I just don't understand why we get excluded all of the time. I'm nice to her even though she has been an ASS for years. I don't get it.
I had disengaged, and I'm trying to not be hurt over this -- but yet again, there it is.