She Feels SOOO Bad.....
Met H for lunch yesterday and, well, I let him have it when he brought up Twit. Yes, when he started to talk about her I stopped him and said I DO NOT WANT TO HEAR ANYTHING ABOUT HER. At that he took my hand and said to please listen for a minute, which I did. Seems Twit is all upset and feels soooo bad that we are separated. She thinks that she may have had something to do with it and does not know what. (Yeah, right). Here is the kicker......Twit says she will do anything she can to get us back together. She Really likes me and wants to be friends. [Translation - she is scared still H is going to be coming back to her and the thought of having to take care of Dear Ole Dad is not something that warms the cockels of her heart).
I know I offended H when I broke out laughing on that line of carp but too bad.
When he finsihed that I said that, okay, I had listened and I want to hear NO MORE FROM HER OR ABOUT HER and if he couldn't abide by that he could leave right now.
Folks, he looks terrible, has lost weight, aged etc. He honestly looked perplexed when I stated that, like he just didn't understand or was having problems comprehending. [Note to me.....ask counselor today about possible dementia etc., or is it guilability].
And so it goes. H asked me out for Saturday and I declined but told him I would have lunch again with him on New Years Eve.
I am afraid this whole thing is going to get a lot more complicated and right now I just don't want to deal with it.