Question: Would you
Drive 6 hrs one way to take SD and her husband out for dinner and then drive home the very next day another 6 hrs? Her birthday is next month and DH feels the need to do this a few days after the blessed event. Yes he last saw her in Aug. I agreed to this even though he knew my vote was to wait until we had a free weekend. And the kicker is that she is spending her actual birthday weekend with surprise- her in-laws!! So she drives many times a year the same distance to see them but has not seen her father since the summer.
I get that it is his daughter. I will book the hotel we stay in because I want a damn nice place. Lol.