The PASing of SGS didn't seem to work, again
Although DH's eldest was putting on a big act of being "nice" to me on Christmas Eve, she could not stop the PASing of SGS against me
Even YSD said completely unsolicited this morning, how DH's eldest really builds her up to SGS so SGS will remember her, etc.. etc...
Of course there is nothing wrong with that, it's great, and DH's eldest does this for DH, FIL and DH's sister too
She definitely does not do this where I'm concerned, not that I would expect she would, but then little SGS is all excited to see his blood 'family' which I'm sure is DH's eldest daughter's intention that he would not be nearly as excited to see me
So, as soon as SGS asks DH something DH's eldest immediately starts the old "oh SGS is asking for Grandpa again" yada yada yada (of course doesn't matter how many times SGS asks for me nothing is said and DH's eldest will change the subject) however I ignore it all and laugh to myself because as much as DH's eldest is trying to make it a competition between me and her "blood" not only it is obvious I could care less and feel it's sad her "blood" have to feel it's a competition between me who isn't SGSls blood, nor even trying to win him over, but the kid ends up hanging around me and getting silly and wanting to make me laugh
The best revenge when I'm not seeking any "family" relationship with the child, nor even trying to get revenge. Simply minding my own business and refusing to compete and the child is obviously happy to be around me
The look on DH's eldest daughter's face is priceless when this happens! Foiled again