Outrageous behavior by Ex to get me back
Haven't posted in a while but still read the topics on the forum when I have a chance. As some of you know I broke up with my ex several months ago because of the behavior of his youngest adult daughter that has been referenced as a "mini-wife." My ex hasn't stopped trying to win me back. At some point after allowing myself to hear him out, he apologized for everything that happened and said he would do whatever he needed to do for us to be together again. However, once I agreed to meet with him we had a very intense conversation and argument. At one point he let me know he was expecting to get a lump sum of money and told me he would do whatever for me, even financially (including a new house) if we could be together and accept, tolerate his youngest daughter no matter what. I immediately rejected that offer and told him I couldn't be bought. I am already financially stable and even if I weren't, my peace is much greater than anything material. He knows I am not even materialistic so I am assuming that this was just some form of desperation on his part. Doesn't a man have to realize his adult daughter is pretty screwed up for him to make such an offer? Or does this simply boil down to him still waiting me but not wanting to do the work to change? Has anyone ever had this happen before? What are other people's take on it?