My fiance's son
I feel so guilty but at the same time I cant seem to get to my fiance about the issue with her son. AT first her son liked me and was fine but now he is just so bad since his mommy and daddy are getting a divorce etc.He is 3 yrs old and turning 4 soon.
Everytime her son comes over he is BAD, he doesnt listen, he wont eat anything healthy, when i give himself he breaks it, he still talks like a two year old, he throws temper tantrums he gets into anything he can get into and he is always angry and he always wants mommy mommy always up her ass 24/7 and she seems to fall for it at times but she has grown tired of his behaviour too. when me and her wants to sit together and hold hands or cuddle (and we limit what we do in front of children by the way lol we know better) he ALWAYS has to break it up and gets jealous because he wants mommy all to himself.
Me and my fiance has argued so many times and fought when he is here about HIM, she says he comes first and that i am getting jealous of her son and that i have poor parenting skills. I never had a kid of my own, never had to raise a kid, raising someone else's kid is diffcult. No matter what I try to do to get him to calm down he never listens and when i have to babysit him he does listen but when mommy or daddy is around he is BAd. I have grown to the point where i cant stand her son coming over because of the way he acts. I care about the kid, I just dont understand it because she was in a abusive relationship with her ex husband they fought all the time in front of the child and he was around that a lot, he never use to want daddy or have anything to do with him it was always mommy , but now he does want his daddy and since his daddy hates me ....A LOT he has tried to cause chaos between us and now i feel like he trying to use their son to get me to leave my fiance that I am with now.
There are times where I have felt i wanted to leave her because of THEIR SON! I am tired of it.... but i know that would hurt my fiance if i left her ...but because she has a brain tumor there is not much she can do and has seizures *sigh* god ..its like one huge mess.