Ok, so Ive been away from the forum for awhile trying to work on disengageing with SD 20. She makes it easy since she doenst try to have any contact with DH me or our two other young children - only time we hear from her is around Christmas or Birthday or when she needs something. DH still longs for a relationship with her and is constantly texting, trying to make plans only to not receive a response until days later if ever in some cases or for her to break plans with whatever lame excuse she comes up with that day. Recently she got into text disagreement with DH and proceeded to blame her lack of relationship with him on me!!!
It was all lies and typical of her "victim" approach to life but one of the things she said DH loves me more than her really got to me. Now this girl has had boyfriends...a DH love should be different than the love they have for their children. Very odd. In trying to find answers i came across mini wife syndrome and think this may have been an issue in our household all along.
Where can i find more information for not only me but for DH too.