Meeting family first time
After 2 1/2 years ill meet the family. My dh hasn't seen his daughter in 2 years. She's 24. Still lives with dysfunctional bm who trys to undermine our relationship from the start. BM still wants my husband back. She refused to come see him several times.
So he says to me he needs alone time with her daughter 24. We are traveling 3000k miles spending 8 days with her. In BMs town. I'm disabled with PTSD. Just how much time does a parent need with an adult child he talks to regularly. He says I'm afraid they'll go off and meet bm. I hadn't thought of that but since he brought it up its now a concern.
So I don't feel like it's normal to go off leaving me alone in strange town disabled with PTSD for hours. Can't a ride to pick up food an hour or so sufficient. We'll be together 8 days. Surely here and there they'll have one on one talks with out abandoning me bored shirtless.
No I'm not able to go off alone to do my own thing. PTSD, physically disabled. Hes a people pleaser. Can't say no to anyone but me. Just how much alone time is needed? Guilty dad syndrome for sure.