Maybe I AM jealous, but
Doesn’t that mean there’s something wrong with SD27 and DH relationship to make me feel like the 3rd wheel? DH tells me I’m just jealous, well She’s jealous too but for some reason that’s understandable even with an H and son of her own. I feel like jealousy is something we are supposed to have for our SOs not for our parents, children, friends etc... am I wrong? I hate feeling it about my DH when it’s not another woman but his own daughter
I’ve been working at this disengagement thing and it’s about 50/50 right now because I can’t seem to get the family gatherings to take place outside of my home. I put on a happy face and fake my way through things and other times I stay in my room the entire night, I’m hoping she gets the hint but it’s doubtful as she always assumes I’m just not feeling well, whatever.
I keep telling DH he needs to visit and spend as much time as possible with SD and grandson until she feels like she’s had enough because I’m tired of the battle, but his response is that he doesn’t want to, which ok I understand that but someone has to tell this princess something because I know she’s stewing about how the Evil Stepmom has taken her Daddy away.
I know for a fact that SD talks behind my back to mutual friends and other family, but when I bring it up to DH he believes SD over any one else and says they’re just gossiping and why would I believe them over her, Um maybe because we’re all on her shit list except for him and it’s the only way we can deal with it by talking to each other. SD has stopped talking to me but when we were on better terms you bet your ass she talked about the others to me so I’m not stupid. DH is blind.
Im tired of being a stepmom, I wish the adults would act as mature as my teenagers.