Well, after yesterday's counseling session and Twit antics this weekend at the auction H seems to have come to some pretty interesting and much needed conclusions, and added some of his own stories he has observed.

When I talked to the counselor about Twit snatching the seats next to us at the auction she said, pretty much as I thought she would, that was beyond our control unless I wanted to really inconvenience myself, that H had nothing to do with it, and he really didn't.

But about trying to get a free dinner off us, well I handled that okay. She told H that if Twit thinks I was terrible that is too bad. One doesn't need to keep track like I take you out today so you take me out tomorrow, but when it is totally one way, that is not right and is taking advantage and exploiting us. Shock of my life.....H AGREED with her!

H shared an interesting Twit story. As you know, Twit had/has been trying to use my house to have a garage sale, which is really a ploy for her to sell pots and pans, get contacts etc. She wants my neighborhood because it is a good neighborhood.

Well, seems Twit got a neighbor to "go in" on a garage sale with her....at the neighbor's place down the road. Twit set up her pots and pans stand with stuff she gives a discount on. Told the neighbor that if the other neighbors in the area come by, it wouldn't be bad to let them in first as they are in the area..keep on good terms with your neighbors Twit said. So, seems H was helping set some final things up the evening before when people came by to see in advance what was for sale (Twit had left already). The owner ended up selling a bunch of stuff including some pot and pan stuff to her immediate neighbors/immediate family....she told them that she knew there was going to be a discount on the stuff but she didn't know how much as Twit neglected to tell her (when H called to check Twit didn't answer phone), and she would see they got the difference back. H related the situation to Twit. Twit's response? Well, if the neighbors and family wanted the stuff then too bad....they paid a premium for 1st choice! She hadn't discounted it YET! H told her that he didn't approve of that, that going back there and putting up a discount sign would only alienate the neighbors and family of the woman having the garage sale. That it would cause her problems. Twit was going to THINK about it.

Man, as I said, greedy, greedy, greedy. Here the woman paid for the ad, is holding the garage sale and letting Twit put her stuff out there and Twit is, dare I say it like this, scr*wing her over! Even the counselor said that after H related the story, well not that Twit was greedy, but she was certainly not being upfront for the neighbor.

Anyway, point is that H didn't like it and told Twit so. He is really getting his eyes open big time. Counselor asked him if he is starting to see a pattern here....Twit always wanting, expecting, using, taking advantage of, etc. AND, lo and behold, H said YES, and he doesn't like what he is seeing.

Perhaps the time he is spending at Twit's place is opening his eyes to what Twit really is. Especially since I have the car so he can't just drive off somewhere away from her. He has to spend the time there.