Husband told me BM called him crying...
He admitted this as we were having a glass of wine. Now, realize SD is 36, inherited over 75,000 and blew it in 2 years, called husband screaming at him because she had no money. She was GIVEN a condo to live in--which she totally trashed. DH has been bailing her out/enabling her all these years. She has one son and will not go after the bio dad for support--she wants to stay "friends" (eye roll). We paid her rent and other tnings while in school to be a LPN, paid a down payment on a car, and even paid for the car until she "got on her feet". She was 30 then. She has come to our vacation EVERY YEAR and had everything paid for. Now, at 36, she is planning to get pregnant with an unemployed man who ALREADY has a toddler by another woman and a NEWBORN from ANOTHER. He pays no support as he is unemployed!
Anyway, DH tells me biomom called his cell and was crying---asking DH to pay SDs
car loan! She claims she works overtime! He said this happened a few months ago and he "forgot to tell me"
Well, I've changed this. Blocked biomom on his cell and told him so. Let him know she is maniplative, plays on his guilt over the divorce 27 years ago (she left and asked for the divorce). The ONLY time she calls here is to rope him in to give more money to the 36 year old.
At 36 years old, there is NO need for bio mom to be involved. Your thoughts?