How Old is Old Enough
My SD is 19 and attending college. She does not live with us. Prior to turning 18, she had regularly scheduled visitation time with my DH. She is employed but lives with her BM. She has been just dropping by randomly without any notice or very short notice. It seems this is only when she wants to avoid driving back to her BM's house, because she is supposed to meet up with friends or has a game later. She comes, uses my shower toiletries, takes up the bathroom for 2 hours, will sit around waiting for my DH or I to make food, or just eats anything she wants in our house without replacing it. She expects to come in and out late at night, even though we want to sleep, and we have younger children in the home.
When is she old enough to supply her own groceries and food?
Can help but feel she is using us.