How to not give a s$&@?
Unfortunately, I am going to be at a party where dh's ex and her spouse will be guests also. Yuck!!!!!! I know I know......don't let it bother you. I am going to be totally blunt, and I may sound shallow, but since the last time I saw her, which was only once, I looked pretty good. Now, three years later, I have gained about 40 pounds and feel 40 years older too! She is a huge narcissist, who spends all her money and energy into pampering herself, and she looks it. Me, I drive an old car, and shop at target these days. My two oldest are in college, and dh still pays plenty for his Ex daughter. I like the term, it fits them well.
And last I saw the ex, she ran out of the coffee shop we were out.....I had confronted her about her behavior and she had no answers. Of course next day, she wrote email to my dh lambasting me.......and of course dh did respond, really infuriating. That will be the last I defend him ever.
But anyway, how do I not give a shit??? I want to say basically F$&@ it, but I get some anxiety thinking about walking in there and seeing her sneer.......