How do I convince Dh that it's NOT a good idea to move skin in when he gets out of prison???
Skid 26 is gonig to prison after gettihng a suspended sentence when he put a guy in a coma with one punch during a bar fight. He violated parole. He'd been sent to a prison for a 90 day observation/evaluation and supposedly did well. Well if you have PRISON supposedly hanging over your head of course you're gonna behave!!!!!!!! He has a long history of violence since age 10 when I met him-named after another guy, dad not allowed in the pic until he was out of control (mom lied about paternity, another guy is on the birth certificate).
The DA is recommending prison time, his attorney wants him to go to rehab where he'd get job training, housing, addiction help, etc. Dh says when he gets out if he needs a place to stay he'll let him stay awhile. He says that when he get out of prison he'll be "changed" and not violent anymore. I know dh wants to believe this but I think this kid has the ability to put on a good act if it means a roof and food. My concerns are that he has basically caused HELL all this time but dh will feel sorry when he gets out cuz he'll have "nowhere to go" and "he'll need help," I know there are re entry programs but idk if he'll be able to get into one or what. I don't think a shelter will kill him personally.
If push comes to shove how do I legally keep him out (we're homeowners)? Does anyone have personal experience wtih this?