Had an Appointment with My Counselor to Discuss Something That Was Disturbing Me
about Twit. Yeah, I know, that is a lot of ground as she is so wacky. But it was about this consistant carping to her father that I need to apologize to her for calling her a liar, which I never did.
This liar charge stems from the Twit's telling DH that she had sent me a Mother's Day card, which DH knows I never received and told her so. First she tried to tell DH that I was lying because she had sent it and didn't want to give her any credit for being nice. Now why the heck she would even bothered to send me a card is beyond me, except to make her Father believe she is so nice, etc.
He told her that he walks down to our mail box with the dog every day and gets the mail and nothing for me ever came. So now the story is that she sent it and the post office lost it I guess I am still a liar according to her. That because she wants me to admit to her that I know she sent me a card. I don't know any such thing, my only reality is that I never received such from her.
That is her latest tantrum with DH. DH has told me I owe her no apology and he even told her that but she is still going nuts on him.
Okay, I was confused and befuddled by this strange behavior so I asked the counselor just why she is so insistent that I apologize and acknowledge that she sent me a card I never received. I mean it is basically a moot point in my opinion.
Counselor says that if she gets me to apologize to her I am acknowledging to DH and herself that she did send a card. That it matters not whether she did or not, but she gets the praise for having done so. It is all about her and her looking good to her father.
The counselor says that being the type that she is, she has been found out, exposed, and she doesn't like it. That I have to fall back into her march of her being perfect etc. And she is even more upset that DH knows that nothing came for me from her. THAT really put a wrench in her nonsense.
Counselor was pleased when I said that DH was sticking up for me, so far, but he still kind of wanted me to make peace with her. NOTE: DH isn't pushing me to do this as he would have in the past, he says it is up to me but I don't owe Twit any apology and he has told Twit as much which has made him a bad guy in her mind as well. As I told the counselor, this is the least of my worries or concerns about Twit. That I feel she has me in her cross-hair and I need to watch out because she isn't going to quit.